6 signs the talking stage isnt leading anywhere

When you are actively searching for a partner, you might discover that you are moving from one failed talking stage to another and another.

Here is how to know a talking stage isn't leading anywhere;

1. You started flirting because you were bored

If the foundation of the talking stage is to fill up time or because you were bored, then there is a chance you will soon get tired of them and find another means of excitement.

2. Your values don’t align

If you hold your values dearly, it is hard to be with someone who doesn’t respect them.

Maybe the sexual attraction is the only thing keeping the talking stage alive, but if your outlook on life is different, you might start drifting apart.

3. They lower your expectations

If they're trying to make sure you do not get your hopes up, that’s a red flag.

I once was talking with a guy who kept talking about cute girls and asking me, “Do you think she will want to have sex with me?”

One time, I asked this guy who his spec is expecting it to be me, but he sent a video of another babe.

Those guys were clearly telling me, it is not you I am searching for.

4. They don’t match your energy

You are the only one calling and texting first.

If you feel like you are putting more energy into the talking stage, it is not leading anywhere and they are not feeling you as much as you think.

5. They do not set up proper dates

He never takes you out to a restaurant or his friend’s birthday or to meet his family.

Anytime he calls you, it feels like a booty call. Every time he wants to come over or want you to come over for a make out session or for casual sex, never anything serious.

6. You are confused about what you both are doing

Maybe he calls you during the weekends to hang out, after that you don’t talk to each other until another three weeks, and then he hits you up out of the blues and says he misses you.

If there are a lot of ups and downs without any definition. It is already a failed talking stage, cut off ties.

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